Chances are you’ve already heard plenty of reasons to scare you from having sex — particularly if you are a woman or a homosexual male. All over the planet we’ve got rules about what we shouldn’t be doing and whom we shouldn’t be doing.
What are some of the things about sex you’re supposed to fear?
- Rape (apparently, ladies, if you have sex or even flirt with a guy, then you’re probably asking for sex with anyone at anytime)
- AIDS (yeah, I know, similar to #3 but this one has historically been directed towards gay males)
- Being labeled a slut or a manwhore (they even have a sort of slut IQ test for it now)
- Not being able to have a family (if you like to have sex with people of your same sex)
At a place like Brown, most of us can shrug off the critics and decide for ourselves which risks we’re comfortable taking. There is, however, one fear voiced quite frequently at Brown and it’s this:
Ruining your chances of establishing a meaningful relationship with someone. [Read more →]